1.Allow yourself and your love an appropriate amount of time before attempting to get them back. You need time to reflect, improve your self-esteem and confidence, and give yourself greater insight into why you want your ex back. You don't want to jump back into a relationship too soon, or you will most likely repeat the same mistakes.
2.Understand why you broke up with your partner in the first place, and do some self-reflection before deciding whether or not you should try to reunite.
3.Admit to yourself the faults that you have and the role you had to play in your breakup. Focus in on the problems that caused the deterioration of your relationship, and think about what you can do to mend them.
4.Communicate with your love effectively. Try to be rational, calm and clear about your intentions to get them back, while explaining how you plan to change. You should not be intimidated or hesitant to talk about your relationship problems.
5.Apologize to your love for the role you played in the relationship ending. Your love will be more willing to make things work with you if you are the first to apologize for the failure of your relationship, but do not apologize when you are not being genuine.
6.Try to get your ex to have a conversation with you about mending the relationship or understanding why it failed. Identify together what you feel were the major problems in the relationship and come up with plans, compromises or commitments to rectify them. If your ex does not want to talk to you, do not try to push them into it or they may feel defensive or uncomfortable and will not open up to you.
7.Construct an air of confidence so that your love will feel secure in your presence. If you appear confident, you will give your ex the impression that you are certain that you know what you want out of your relationships and your life. Your confidence will express that you are sure in your ability to change and be a better partner.
8.Have a positive attitude about getting back together, and don't dwell on the past. If you are willing to try to make the relationship work again, go back into it without resentment or anger. Believe that the relationship will work out and stay up beat about resolving problems in the future.
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Rabu, 12 Juni 2013
10 Tips for Finding True Love and Happiness
1. Leave the past in the past
When you meet someone new, leave any negative feelings or past heartbreaks just where they should be—in the past.
When you meet someone new, leave any negative feelings or past heartbreaks just where they should be—in the past.
2. You won’t meet someone new in your living room
Well, maybe a cute guy will deliver your new sofa, but chances are you’re going to meet someone by getting out there and trying new things—online dating, taking a class, etc. Tell everyone, especially your married friends, that you’re looking to meet someone and ALWAYS go to parties. Because you truly never know who you’ll meet.
Well, maybe a cute guy will deliver your new sofa, but chances are you’re going to meet someone by getting out there and trying new things—online dating, taking a class, etc. Tell everyone, especially your married friends, that you’re looking to meet someone and ALWAYS go to parties. Because you truly never know who you’ll meet.
3. Give the guy a chance
When you were 20 your list was “he must be tall, dark and handsome.” Try going against type. It just might be a perfect fit.
When you were 20 your list was “he must be tall, dark and handsome.” Try going against type. It just might be a perfect fit.
4. Look at blind dates like a first date
Two of the authors of our book met their husbands on blind dates, and you can too! If you’re not sure you want to sit in a noisy restaurant, go out and do something fun. One of our Garter Brides went to a baseball game, and she and her date each brought a friend. They had a blast and got married one year later.
Two of the authors of our book met their husbands on blind dates, and you can too! If you’re not sure you want to sit in a noisy restaurant, go out and do something fun. One of our Garter Brides went to a baseball game, and she and her date each brought a friend. They had a blast and got married one year later.
5. Time is on your side
Take your time in getting to know your guy and don’t feel in a rush to meet his children or have him meet yours. It starts with the two of you. Make sure this is someone you want in your life.
Take your time in getting to know your guy and don’t feel in a rush to meet his children or have him meet yours. It starts with the two of you. Make sure this is someone you want in your life.
6. Isn’t it romantic?
Just because you’re meeting the love of your life later in life doesn’t mean you can’t still have passionate, amazing sex! The Garter Brides say “Go for it!”
Just because you’re meeting the love of your life later in life doesn’t mean you can’t still have passionate, amazing sex! The Garter Brides say “Go for it!”
7. Someone to come home to
When you’re ready to move in together you will discover how wonderful it is to come home to the one you love. Be prepared for some give and take—for example, over which of each others’ belongings stay or go.
When you’re ready to move in together you will discover how wonderful it is to come home to the one you love. Be prepared for some give and take—for example, over which of each others’ belongings stay or go.
8. What’s up with a pre-nup?
Remember that a pre-nup isn’t because you think your marriage isn’t going to work—it’s so you get to decide how your assets and everything you’ve worked for can be protected.
Remember that a pre-nup isn’t because you think your marriage isn’t going to work—it’s so you get to decide how your assets and everything you’ve worked for can be protected.
9. Your wedding, your way
Now you’re in love and it’s time to have your wedding exactly how you want it. The Garter Brides have had all kinds of weddings! Remember it is all about you and the man of your dreams. Whatever you want is the way to go.
Now you’re in love and it’s time to have your wedding exactly how you want it. The Garter Brides have had all kinds of weddings! Remember it is all about you and the man of your dreams. Whatever you want is the way to go.
10. Happily ever after can happen to you
Remember what the Garter Brides always say: “It’s never too late to find true love. We did, and you can too!’
Remember what the Garter Brides always say: “It’s never too late to find true love. We did, and you can too!’
By The Garter Brides from ThirdAge.com
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You
First Time I see u..
I know u can be the one..
My heart can't stop beating fast..
This is love lady..
Second Time I see u
U standing there alone...
I greet u n say hallo..
That smile u give never I forget..
Third Time I see u
U walking around with me..
Share love n joy ..
Wasting time together..
I hope that Moment will last forever..
I wont let you go..
I swear it to you..
U are my only one..
I know u can be the one..
My heart can't stop beating fast..
This is love lady..
Second Time I see u
U standing there alone...
I greet u n say hallo..
That smile u give never I forget..
Third Time I see u
U walking around with me..
Share love n joy ..
Wasting time together..
I hope that Moment will last forever..
I wont let you go..
I swear it to you..
U are my only one..
THE MOON HAS FALLEN
THE MOON HAS FALLEN
By Mych Ryan
Nothing to say, the rain drifted my words away
No place to stay, the love was taken away
The moon has fallen, the heart has broken
I’m here, fighting against my own demon
The fight of good and bad,
Happy and sad
Love and hate,
But I think it’s too late….
Looks like the demons win,
They’re laughing loud on my sins
Now I’m waiting for forgiveness
From you, not from others
Thousands rivers won’t be enough to wash me
From my sins, and from all the demons in me
By Mych Ryan
Nothing to say, the rain drifted my words away
No place to stay, the love was taken away
The moon has fallen, the heart has broken
I’m here, fighting against my own demon
The fight of good and bad,
Happy and sad
Love and hate,
But I think it’s too late….
Looks like the demons win,
They’re laughing loud on my sins
Now I’m waiting for forgiveness
From you, not from others
Thousands rivers won’t be enough to wash me
From my sins, and from all the demons in me
I MISS YOU
I MISS YOU
By Algiana safitri
The days that pass me
Lonely only accompanying
Spirit was as if he had died
Would all back
Liver is smiling again
Without the burden on the heart
My own ... ...
my own ... ...
my own, in the illusion
I cried ... ...
I cried ... ...
I crying on the inside
.....
I hate, like this
I hate, when so
I hate .. I hate this fate
I just want happy
I just want to laugh
I just .. I just want to be happy ....
....
If you're here, to always accompany
I miss you so much
By Algiana safitri
The days that pass me
Lonely only accompanying
Spirit was as if he had died
Would all back
Liver is smiling again
Without the burden on the heart
My own ... ...
my own ... ...
my own, in the illusion
I cried ... ...
I cried ... ...
I crying on the inside
.....
I hate, like this
I hate, when so
I hate .. I hate this fate
I just want happy
I just want to laugh
I just .. I just want to be happy ....
....
If you're here, to always accompany
I miss you so much
MEMORIES OF YOU
MEMORIES OF YOU
By Ronald Soemitro
Wherever I am,,
In whatever way,,,
your memories are always with me,,,
Should I tell anyone or should I not,,
It's the matter of the heart after all,,
It's said that a world moves along with us,,
Even as solitude grows silently in the heart,,
All I have are memories,,
Somewhere in my heart,,
an arrow pierces trough memories,,
Somewhere every pictures dims a little,,
Some find happiness in the shades of a new world,,
Memories of you...
Hold my hand,,
let's remember what we share
Understand that I know you really care
Baby that you ever think of me as your best friend,,??
Remember all those times, we were best friend??
I remember,
It’s been 365 nights since the last goodbye
It’s too long for me, that’s the reason why
Now please come down, get lower
I’m on the top of the tower and can’t go higher
I have something to say to you
I need to tell you, that… I wanna stop loving you
Tugas Bahasa Inggris 3
1. The defendant refused to answer
the prosecutor's questions. .........
A. Because he was afraid it would
incriminate him.
B. For fear that they will
incrimate him
C. Because he was afraid that his
answer would incriminate him.
D. Fearing that he will
incriminated by it.
The right answer: A
2. Mrs. Walker has returned ..........
A. A wallet back to its original
owner
B. To its original owner the
wallet
C. The wallet to its originally
owner
D. The wallet to its original
owner
The right answer: D
3. The hospital owes ............ For
the constrution of the new wing.
A. The goverment twenty million
dollars
B. For the goverment twenty
million dollars
C. To the goverment twenty million
dollars
D. Twenty million of dollars to
the goverment
The right
answer: C
4. Sarah ,,,,,,,,,,,,,, that
she could not attend the classes next week.
A. Told to her professors
B. Said her professors
C. Told her professors
D. Is telling her professors
The right
answer: A
5. The artist was asked to show
some paintings at the contest because,,,,,,,,,,,,,
A. He painted very good
B. They believed he painted well
C. Of their belief that he was an
good artist
D. The judges had been told of his
talents
The right
answer: A
6. If motorist do not
observe the traffic regulations, they will
be
A B C
stopped, ticketed, and have
to pay a fine
D
The answer: D
7. Fred, who usually conducts the
choir rehearsals, did not show
A
up last night because he had accident on
his way to the
B C
D
practice
The answer: B
8. A short time before
her operation last month, Mrs. Carlyle
A
dreams of her daugther who lives overseas
B C D
The answer: B
9. The atmosphere in
Andalusia is open, warm, and gives a welcome feelingto all who have the
A
B
C
D
The answer: B
10. Some of the people
were standing in the street watched the
parade, whileothers were singing songs
A
B
C
D
The answer: C
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